Dr. Z on Scoring: How to Pick Up, Seduce and Hook Up with Hot Women
March 15, 2010 by dating review
Filed under Dating advice
- ISBN13: 9781416551553
- Condition: NEW
- Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
Product Description
For the first time ever, a book on how to pick up hot women by a hot
woman! Penthouse columnist Dr. Z shows you how it’s done.
You’re at a party, or just a coffee shop, when suddenly — there she is. Across the room is the hottest woman you’ve ever seen, one who makes your palms sweat and your breath come faster. She’s amazing, a real knockout. But you’re just an average guy, with average looks and an average job. What chance would you ever have o… More >>
Dr. Z on Scoring: How to Pick Up, Seduce and Hook Up with Hot Women
Most of the book seems to be a rehash of the pick-up books that recommend you just be yourself and not act creepy. This, of course, is one of the two major types of “how to pick up women” books. The other is the “outsmart ‘em”, “use them before they use you” contemptuous approach.
And telling men not to twitch, have bad breath or dirty clothing, etc., shouldn’t be necessary. Really, that’s just padding the book. If the answer is “It’s not padding. You’d be surprised how many men don’t follow these suggestions”, I still think that someone who needs to be told this isn’t going to be helped by the book. I can’t imagine anyone saying, “I have to bathe before I go out to a bar? And wear clean clothes, too? Huh! I never knew that! Thank you, Dr. Z!”
Then there are the obvious observations, such as “Hot women tend to be more promiscuous than other women.” I don’t know if I agree with that, but, assuming it’s correct, if someone is reading this book, it’s because he wants to know HOW to approach women, not which ones to approach. It’s only half an answer to say, “The hot women are the most likely to sleep with a man.” The answer to that is, “And the hot women only want the hot men. So what am I supposed to do?”
What isn’t a rehash, padding or obvious is just plain bad advice – and it isn’t even consistent with the “just be yourself and don’t act creepy, and women will like you” approach.
For example, she suggests you hang around women’s shoe stores or clothing stores (that’s creepy, isn’t it? Unless you’re going to use the transparent, “It’s for my cousin/niece/sister” dodge).
She also recommends ploys such as waiting until you see an attractive woman check the price tag on a dress and, with a sad look on her face, put it back on the rack. Then you go over to her and buy her the dress! Now, that’s setting a bad precedent. Not to mention that you might have to buy a lot of expensive dresses before you get a date out of it!
Rating: 1 / 5
The worst of the bunch! The academic credentials and centerfold status might make you believe there’s something here, but there’s not. It’s the same “courting game” that Disney fairy tales have engrained in our collective minds. She tries to bring more credibility to the “just be a nice sensitive guy routine” by mentioning Pick Up artist like Mystery, but then tells you to do exactly the opposite of what they teach. If waiting for a woman to look at an expensive dress and when she puts it back because she cannot afford it, you offer to buy it for her isn’t what a supplicating sugar daddy chump would do, what is? It boils down to you having to be Richard Gere in “Pretty Woman” to bed Julia Roberts. Don’t we all know this already?
Rating: 1 / 5
Being a woman who has been referred to in the past as “a hottie”, I can attest to and agree with many areas of this book by beautiful, intellligent Dr. Victoria Zdrok.
She hits the nail on the head with this book (as well as her others)by virtue of real-time, real-life tips on how to make connections. This book is brilliant in that she opens her mind and takes on many different roles–from the perspective of a man, a woman, a psychologist, someone who has had good experiences, someone who has had bad experiences–all with a touch of humor so as to not scare shy readers away.
It is not a book/guide full of fluff. There is real content which is formally written and then constructed into tip sheets, etc. No mattter what you visual preference is, you can easily find your way in the material.
Personal experiences are can be very useful tools. Dr. Zdrok inserts them frequently throughout the pages–but does not use them as tools to bash a person or experience–but as learning mini-vignettes. Wonderful, real-life/real-time examples.
I wholeheartedly recommend this book to any fellow who is looking for fresh, new ways to meet up with a woman. Her theories, practices, and schools of thought have been validated by clinical studies and personal/professional references cited in the professionally approved American Psycholigical Association (APA) style–another example which goes to show that what is written in her book is legitimate and has passed the time of time.
Women can learn things from this book as well–it provides excellent insight into the thought processes of both men and women. If readers can open and stretch their minds to that of the opposite gender he/she will be that much more ahead of the game when in situations where certain body postures are presented, for example–or blocks of time pass without a follow-up phone call or email. This book wonderfully and thoroughly delves into the psyches of men who want to hook up and how women react to them. Two thumbs up!!
Rating: 5 / 5
If your looking for a book that will allow you to truly how to approach, entertain and please women buy this book. It is filled with a lot of tips and pointers that men don’t know. I think men go for the usual, straight forward approach only to crash and burn. Dr. Z does a great job to approach all aspects of dating – from the conversation starter to pleasing her later
. Don’t look at this purchase as a question to your inabilities with women – It is way more than that and the information is priceless!
Rating: 5 / 5
“When I woke up, they told me I had a girl, ‘Good,’ I said, “I hope she grows up to be a little fool. That’s the best thing a girl can be in this world–a beautiful little fool!!!!–F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby.
Dr Z has definately led a charmed life, no doubt about it. She came here from Ukraine, modeled for Playboy and Penthouse and got degrees; successful by anyone’s standards. But I have to wonder if she would have faired so well in life if she wasn’t such a winner of the genetic lottery–a beautiful little fool, as it were.
Reading the book and having some of Dr Z’s personal sexual exploits sprinkled within the pages confused me a little bit. She advocates men spending money, yet she says that’s not really what it takes. We, sadly, don’t live in the era of sex for money (which in itself, at least, is honest); but rather we live in the days of the “promise” of sex for money/compensation. Some women make a game out of getting what they can from a man without giving him anything but a promise (lie) in return. It’s the men’s fault for doing this, of course, cause most of those same girls seem to fall for the badboy-types or even abusive men because that is what trips their trigger deep down. Dr. Z speaks only of the viewpoints of her and the ladies that she has gotten to meet over the years, mostly from her time in front of the camera. These women are sought after by every man on the planet and they know it, the true one-percenters of the nude modeling world. She makes it sound unbelieveably EASY to pick up and have sex with all women, hot or not. I think most men who want to have some semblance of a soul find it a bit harder than she would profess. I, for instance, want to be nice and sweet to a girl and also bang her like a Chinese gong. These things still seem to be mutually exclusive, even today.
I don’t know, its a brave and scary new world we live in. Hooking up, weather for a night or a lifetime, is still largely a matter of timing and luck. All I can say is just be nice to that man or that woman who is trying to talk to you and try to have fun and enjoy the few short years we have here on Earth. Peace!!!
Rating: 2 / 5