What Do You Do For Lonliness And Depression When The Dating Sites Dont Work?

by online dating on October 30, 2009

HOW DO YOU FIND A GENUINE GENTLEMAN WHEN THE DATING SITES DONT WORK, GOING TO CHURCH DOESNT WORK, NIGHT CLUBS ARE OUT SO ARE DANCES I AM PARTIALLY DISABLED CANT WALK LONG DISTANCES CANT DANCE, BUT HAVE WONDERFUL PERSONALITY, A CHRISTIAN DISEASE DRUG AND ALCOHOL AND SMOKE FREE, AND RATHER NICE LOOKING.

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Anonymous October 30, 2009 at 1:17 pm

No matter what your level of disability it’s clear you can write and convey your thoughts to others. Have you considered becoming part of a community group? Maybe your church does good works, or has some sort of program that encourages outreach?
There’s also attending classes at the local college or university, maybe even doing something online?
I guaruantee that it’s not because of your disability that you’re having trouble finding someone. You want a decent good hearted person right? Well that person wouldn’t care about your impedments. It’s just that your life path hasn’t crossed his just yet. He’s out there, wondering if he’ll ever find you…
Put the loneliness and depression aside as they are self-indulgent. Get out there and enjoy the world and give them a chance to enjoy you!
Know things will better, best wishes – J
1.27 12:27a est So So sorry to hear about your daughter, she can’t be hurt anymore where she is now, and has a peace that no one can have in life. It should be important to everyone in your community to bring the killers to justice, but maybe this is a fight you’ll have to fight for a long time. May your faith help you through this struggle.
This might be a good time for some “Chicken Soup” books to be borrowed from the library. Maybe the folks at the library could even advise a way to get to and from there.
Maybe they could even suggest a place to take classes in the area, maybe a Parks and Rec, or a community center building in town?
Sometimes you have to put yourself out there. It can’t be easy to deal with the circumstances of your situation and I don’t mean to sound as if I am trivalizing your concerns. In fact I agree that you are probably a hundred percent correct about your surroundings. Thing is SOMEONE is going to have to change that, for you, for other people like you, and even for the people unlike you who don’t realize things need to change.
Speak to the people in your City Hall about arrangements being made (transportation and otherwise) for the people with various “challenges” in your town. If they aren’t helpful right from the get go, it might be time to enlist the help of the American with Disabilities.
If it sounds like I am assigning you to a crusade, you’re right. I think the powers that be brought you to that little town in hopes that you might bring about some change. There is someone right now, or in the foreseeable future, who couldn’t speak fom themselves, who doesn’t have the strength of character you do, who needs you to help people SEE.
Your daughter believes in you, knows you’re up to the task. She’s watching right now, hoping you’ll smile.
Dear heart , please remember that for many of us, it’s a struggle to find companionship. Maybe right now the focus should be just on building your circle of friends (step in the right direction is posting here at Yahoo Answers). And later, friends can introduce more friends, and sometimes that’s when you find those things that you gave up hope of ever finding.
The powers that be are with you, as am I- J
sagebella72-answers@yahoo.com

oasis October 30, 2009 at 8:10 pm

I don’t know what your disability is and if you are on any medication some can cause depression if not give yourself sometime you are probably trying too hard someone will see that wonderful quality you have. What religion are you?

Ana October 30, 2009 at 9:45 pm

A very good idea is to continue doing what you usually do and someone with those same intrests is bound to come along. Perhaps you go to a special class or whatnot- watch out for guys there. Good Luck!

reed8866 October 31, 2009 at 2:15 am

well you make new friends most people set there friend up on blind dates.

heavenly October 31, 2009 at 8:19 am

I do believe that they are someone out their for everyone, maybe you are trying to hard loosing up he could be right under your nose and where you are trying so hard you cant see him. If he isn’t I’m sure hes out there just keep looking!

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