Why is it that a girl makes the initial contact with you, says she wants to see you, you both make arrangements to meet up, then she stops all contact suddenly just before the planned event and does this same thing 4 times in a row. And we never end up meeting up at all. Why is she doing this? I’m sure that it is not her fault girls have always done this same thing to me. There is something about me that people simply don’t like and I need to find out what that is and fix it.
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Hmmm…… I think you should go to the guidance counselor or some adult you trust…..maybe not your parents because they love you and also don’t see you at school….
Tell the adult that your parents would never tell you what it might be…. and ask them,,,,as an honest bystander…..to give you the answer no matter whether or not they think it might hurt your feelings…
Tell them if it is your grooming, or weight, or appearance, or bad breath or BO or something about you….all you need is someone to clue you in….that you want to change/improve whatever it is…
Also, you sound so very nice….and like a reasonable person (most guys never get it that it IS something they are doing….they are so selfish, they just ATTITUDE…)….and I sincerely hope that whatever is keeping you from having girlfriends, that it is something with an easy fix for you….
Good luck
If you can’t figure if out yourself, ask one or more of your past dates to clue you in. If you approach it with them sincerely you’ll probably find out.
I, honest to God, had a friend who was perfect in every respect except he picked his nose and ate the boogers right in front of you, and I’m sincere, honest to God, he didn’t realize he was doing it.
I’m sure you don’t have that problem, but if you can get just one of them to give you a clue, I’m also sure you’ll be able to correct it. Anyway, best of luck.
Maybe something does come up. Maybe! But you ask her what the deal is you know if she playing games with you or not. Theres so many other girls out there you havent even really dated her so you will be okay. Thats so sad that you allow these girls to keep on doing this to you. Keep your head up and they are probably just that a lil girl anyhow!
sometimes girls loose interest in guys fast. it could be you or her. but if you guys did make arrangements, then that must mean she likes you. maybe try to seem more appealing to the ladies. good luck ;]
i used to do that with my ex boyfriend
its because i REALLY nervous about seeing him
and i would think i wasnt pretty or something
she’s probably just nervous so don’t take it personally
UM I THINK YOU SHOULD ASK HER WHY SHE NEVER HAVE SHOWED UP